Waiting for the diagnosis is bad, but the certainty can be even worse. Romy Nagora-Müller from Dresden experienced this moment in October 2025. Back then, she received confirmation from her gynecologist of a disease that had already been indicated by the findings: cervical cancer. "It was a shock," says the 44-year-old mother and wife, recalling the moment that changed her life. Although she had known about an infection with HPV viruses a few years earlier, she had felt safe with regular check-ups.
But until then, she had to go through a rollercoaster of emotions. Three years earlier, she had cared for her mother, who was suffering from cancer and lost her life to the insidious disease at the age of 59. "One was a different cancer story, but it's very much in your head what it means to have cancer, what treatments there are and how you suffer as a patient." Nevertheless, she initially approached the challenge relatively calmly. Women in her environment had also had to deal with the virus, precancerous stages, a scraping or removal of the uterus.
She had immediately suggested removing the uterus because she no longer wanted to have children after her daughter, who is now 16 years old. "But then it was made clear to me during an examination that I shouldn't be so relaxed about it. I was quickly brought down to earth and was very scared," says the woman, who works as the owner of a beauty salon in Dresden. When she left the doctor's surgery, she was hot and cold. She only felt some relief when it was clear that no metastases had yet formed.