Waiting for the diagnosis is bad, but the certainty can be even worse. Romy Nagora-Müller from Dresden experienced this moment in October 2025. Back then, she received confirmation from her gynecologist of a disease that had already been indicated by the findings: cervical cancer. "It was a shock," says the 44-year-old mother and wife, recalling the moment that changed her life. Although she had known about an infection with HPV viruses a few years earlier, she had felt safe with regular check-ups.
She had immediately suggested removing the uterus because she no longer wanted to have children after her daughter, who is now 16 years old. "But then it was made clear to me during an examination that I shouldn't be so relaxed about it. I was quickly brought down to earth and was very scared," says the woman, who works as the owner of a beauty salon in Dresden. When she left the doctor's surgery, she was hot and cold. She only felt some relief when it was clear that no metastases had yet formed.
Support from the family is healing
Family support is another problem for cancer patients. Nagora-Müller was able to rely on family support right from the start. "In hospital, I got to know a few stories of people who were alone and didn't have the support I did." Of course, she also read up on the internet and shared all the information with her husband, she says. "My husband is a very positive, optimistic person. He always tries to pull me out of lows when I'm sad."
Romy Nagora-Müller told her daughter a short time later. "I couldn't help myself. I came back from the dysplasia consultation and was devastated. I talked to her about it." Her child never doubted from the start that she could do it. Her daughter wanted to know whether it was like her grandmother, whose illness she had experienced at the time. After that, however, she was relaxed about it all. "I see that as a compliment today. She had faith in me because she knew that I was strong and would somehow manage."